It took awhile to teach him the rules, but Liam joined us tonight in a bean-planting game of Bohnanza.


Babies cry, but for the most part, we've been lucky to get one that doesn't cry that much.....relative to the average baby, which cries 2-4 hours a day. There have however been a few times that no matter what we try, he gets progressively more upset. Twice now the only thing then that has seemed to work is tribal breathing -- that's the best way I can think of to describe it. I hold Liam in my hands with his body close to my head, rock back and forth or in a circular motion, lifting him up and down and breathe deeply and loudly in and out at his chest, more intensely if and when he cries and eventually slowing it down as he seems to go in a trance-like state, eventually to sleep. It can take awhile to work and sometimes it includes what might be described as breath chanting. The first time I did it, and now I've done it twice, I thought Melanie was going to think it was bizarre. It felt odd but it was working and I was willing to try anything. Melanie later said it was meditative and was actually putting her to sleep watching me.
This morning I planned on writing about this having no idea that I'd need to employ it again tonight. Its been very hot here in Oakland and Liam did spit up alot this morning, as you can see in the following video, "Warning: Graphic Milk". He's been eating a lot.
Melanie took Liam today to our favorite bay area baby-related place,
Tulip Grove, in Montclair, Oakland. I think it might be the only place/store that Melanie has gone to other than the pediatrician -- well, she did also go today to get her nails done with Natasha. Anyway, the exciting news is that the really cool owners, Jen & Victoria, asked if Liam could be included in a TV show spotlighting
Tulip Grove, filmed here in the bay area, so we'll keep you updated as Liam's career progresses.
Oops, Melanie painted her toes different colors! ;)




